You don't know what is sick and is not. Your party is the one that likes to change the rules based on what the pervs want.
There are reports that people at the office where he worked thought it was strange that he liked teenage girls. I wonder what they would have said if he just told them that he did not like to date teenage girls but instead liked to date MEN his own age or that he self identified as a woman. Sick puppy or not? As I said, you don't know. You have to wait to find out what the "progressives" decide in the long run.
I am old school and think that 14 is too young to make decisions about sex and gender preference and all that. But I read more and more about problems in states that want very, very, very minor children to be able to make gender reassignment decisions without parental consent. So, let me review this. A 14 year old child is too young to consent to sexual relations but is old enough to make an irreversible decision about mutilating their private parts or undertaking psychologically damaging identity changes. Might want to think about that a bit more but of course it is progressive so that automatically tells you what you want to do- no thinking required.