Did not expect some of these answers.
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Here is a thought for those on the journey.
"Making money is much easier if you are an a$$Hole".
"Doing it without being a jerk is the real deal."
Consider being that jerk, ruthless, all about my goals, etc for 10-20 years. What type of person, well practiced and rewarded for your behavior, have you become? So you end up 100mil+ rich, but the only people who you are truly friends with, have the same values etc, are just like you. NOW you want to change and be that nice guy?
Consider the other route. You have a community of likeminded people, kind, helpful, respectful, grateful for their life. You make only 10Mil. and you have a bunch of great people around you who are also good people.
So many think ruthless, jerk laden behavior is "worth it". It is truly selling your soul. They learn internet posturing and rudeness as a way to get ahead.
I have about 10 associates who are in the 100+mil club. Only one has a life that I would take over. The rest have: Divorces, megalomania, rudeness, ingratitude, insatiable needs and wants and health issues.
The other 9 are trying to live a more meaningful grateful life, but it is MORE of a struggle to regain their "goodness" than making the money. I don't think they will settle down anytime soon. I don't hang with them much as their path is, for lack of a better description, "sophomoric".
Others who are in the 10Mil Club, about 1/2 are chill and are grateful, interesting, hopeful responsible community minded people. Their post fortune lives have been humane and full of good vibes.
It is not what you do, it is how you do it. It is a lesson everyone will eventually learn if they examine their life with clear lens.
Think about the happiest you have ever been. Usually, not much money is involved.
Everyone was more authetically, and naturally, happier when they were younger, dumber and poor.
Everyone uh ?!?
Besides your gross generalization making it hard to take you half seriously, my experience is quite the contrary.
Interesting topic anyway, that comes back up regularly.
Did you not do things in your youth with cost attached that in terms of your today's earnings are a drop in the bucket that you, however, can't repeat for various reasons? Not talking about stupid stuff only but also awesome stuff sometimes born out of naivete or simple mindedness...