I am fascinated by the phenomena of sitting on a trade that's going deeper and deeper in the hole. 13 years ago, I did more or less the same thing, bolstered by the fact that, until that day, I'd always been able to add to my position and trade in and out, still holding the original trade, until I finally was green on the entire series, considering it to be one trade. Of course, fact is, it would have been easier to have taken a manageable loss on the original trade and, if I felt a need to "get even" make other trades later on, or even another day.
I could see my problem as I was making it, and I repeated the very next day. It's some sort of feeling like nothing else, losing a shitload of money while knowing better, like the ultimate rush of misery adrenaline. Super not good, and definitely something you wouldn't want to repeat. So, why would someone want to do it over and over?
That's the sort of screwup a person should only have to make once in a lifetime, but I see people making exactly the same move over and over. I really want to understand what people are thinking when they do that. Most of the people I've asked about it clam up when I want to know exactly what's going through their mind. One person was honest with me(up to a point) The cessation of communication came when I asked "So, when you, after hours, days, weeks, and months of calm, logical thought came up with the figure of X as being the perfect stop.....decided in the heat of a trade that your most logical move was to cancel that stop and take a chance on a turn on tick past your stop, or an epic beating.. what were you thinking? All I could get was "I wasn't" Possibly he actually stopped thinking, but seems like if he did, he'd been unable to click to cancel his stop. More likely, he didn't want to tell me.
In my own case, I was right, I knew I was right, and dammit, I was gonna get my money back!! But, of course, it doesn't actually matter if you're right. You're always right, the market will go up, it will go down...just maybe not right now. In my thinking, right or wrong doesn't matter. It offends me to be making long trades with the current state of world affairs, but that's the way the market is going, and I'm in it for a few bucks here and there, not to make a statement.
So, if anybody who has had experience, or knows anyone else who has in this particular field...sitting on a trade while it takes a huge pounding and not getting out...please post what you were thinking. What was the logic?