Your decision not to escalate the situation into violence was a reasoned, thoughtful, aware process.
There are degrees, often people go off initially in a blind rage, then as the situation becomes more escalated and they sense the dangers, their mind kicks in and subdues the primitive instincts.
That's what reason does, it overrides the animalistic, reactive and cretin like behavior that is often instinctual.
Reason may not be the very first response to a given situation, but he civilized man or woman learns when to put the primitive urges back in their proper place.
Good for you.
So, what does all this have to do with capital punishment again?
I am supportive of law and order, of justice and effective punishment....however, in today's society with our present technology and wealth, it is not necessary for the state to kill anyone via a planned execution in order to protect the law abiding citizens of society.
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I'd say no, it wasn't a reasoned process. A reasoned process would have me avoiding getting into a bar fight in the first place. Self preservation (if that is indeed the right description)is a MUCH more primitive response, akin to jerking your hand out of a fire - not much thought goes into THAT. Do you see? I didn't give a crap about the dude, didn't think what I could have taken from him, none of that deeper shit. Just me. Nothing else, and if you've never been there, then I guess we'll always disagree.
And I'll still disagree about the avoiding the death penalty - it still provides a deterrence. You have to look it in scale with other things. Drive drunk, lose your license. Do it again go to jail. Do it a 3rd time and a longer stay. Etc. The escalating penalties will eventually keep SOMEONE off the road, and as such, will keep you and I safer. That's why we have laws, to benefit society.
I give you that the death penalty may not be right in all circumstances. Again, the grey areas rule here. There are no absolutes. but in some cases, such as Tookie's - that mother fucker deserved what he got.