That you think in sides in this matter says everything I am afraid. And go fuck yourself with your snivelling "all due respects".
Empathic, sensitive to the suffering of others (if they are) and ideally able to give practical help or advise. That is what good is and it is fairly inherent not requiring any screeching Jesus saves dog and pony show. Some even happen to be caught up in the frameworks of churches.
US churches are business now for the very most part. The exceptions don't exonerate the norm. Feel free to but what about there.
I am reading your twaddle on break at a group I volunteer with most weekends and during the week when called on.
I do this because I can and it seems right, not for admission to heaven etc. I'm not collecting salvation savings stamps.
Try and practice what you preach, work against the force of evil that is sociopath evangelical etc run churches. I do.