Quote from austinp:
<i>"If one can find a system such that all the system's parameters suit your personality, one will probably have an easy time following the system with full faith, and thus the success will follow."</i>
Well, sort of. A discretionary trader IS the system itself. All entry - management - exit decisions are based upon whatever criteria, but the emotional self-control of each individual is 100% responsible for results.
Said another way, each and every individual is 100% personally responsible for their trading results. They either create, enhance or negate any edge for any approach, discretionary or systematic. No approach exists that will negate or overcome negative = destructive human emotions. Ever.
The fallacy exists that mechanical system trading negates emotional control. Not true. Every system trader goes thru the failure process of shutting off their system in a drawdown, sitting idle thru the subsequent recovery period, turning on the system at next peak equity high, riding into next drawdown, shutting off in the equity dip, repeat the process until they quit. Some survive and emerge from that self-destructive behavior to enjoy profitable system trading from there.
Trading is ridiculously easy... when it pertains to having a methodical edge in any given market. Managing oneself thru the daily process of maintaining that edge is absolutely everything. One hundred people can have the exact-same parameters to trade with... but only five or ten will manage themselves properly for success.
That is a universal law in our profession regardless of all else, there is no circumventing that fact. None of us follow any system... we are each the system itself.
Saxon22, I'm not a "successful trader" by any means, being new to all this. However, it appears to me that you are under the mistaken impression that what is interesting or motivational to you must or should be interesting and motivational to everyone, and that if you find something boring then it is of no value to anyone.Quote from saxon22:
Trading well is more fun than owning a Ferrari to those who have yet to trade well.
Trading well is boring. There is nothing exciting about it. You feel good knowing that today you have outsmarted 98% of other payers in the market.
The difference is you make more and you have the freedom to DO things you could not do having a regular Joe Shmoe job pushing pencils 9 to 5.
The guy decided to live his life eating cheap nasty food and waste his life in front of a screen making his account grow to do what???? Make more? So that he can die super rich instead of just rich?
Quote from anonymous:
Saxon22, I'm not a "successful trader" by any means, being new to all this. However, it appears to me that you are under the mistaken impression that what is interesting or motivational to you must or should be interesting and motivational to everyone, and that if you find something boring then it is of no value to anyone.
If someone really really enjoys trading, what's wrong with that? If someone doesn't want a Ferrari, or happens to enjoy cheap Chinese takeout, what's wrong with that?
I believe you're speaking somewhat to perceived extremes, and I would agree that balance in one's life is important. However, even in terms of balance each of us is different, and each person's balance will be different from another's.
- Andrew.
I agree with most of that. I'm just saying that without seeing the full picture of someone's life it's not particularly useful or instructive to make judgements about the value of their existence. For instance, if this theoretical gentleman in Hong Kong very much enjoyed his job, found value in frequenting the same lunch place he ate at when he was "poor", and enjoyed spending his evenings and weekends gardening with his grandchildren, would that be a wasted life? Perhaps he just felt that just because he was wealthy, he wasn't "too good" for the food stand around the corner. We may know some things about a person, but we don't know the balance of what makes someone who they are.Quote from saxon22:
Trading is a job. One might like it, enjoy it and take pleasure from it, but it should never become an obsession, or an addiction. If someone, like you said: "really, really enjoys trading" then it might be gambling and not trading you are experiencing. Ask yourself this question: what is it about trading that you are enjoying so much?
I am not saying that what I enjoy for a living should be pursued by others. What I am stating is that some traders do end up dead with couple of million $$$ in their account and a basement full of pizza leftovers and pron dvds. Now,most people live uneventful lives because they are stuck with all kinds of obligations that they have gotten themselves into. They watch TV eat shitty food watch some more tv pop a few pills to make them happy, slepy, horny or all three and they call it a living. I call it existence and a sordid one at that. One might say hey it is his life and it is true, the question is was it living by a standard definition of living. Existing? Perhaps. Living? you answer that question.