Quote from Gordon Gekko:
The analogy is, when some people are born into a rich family, which increases their chances off success, do you even want to compete with them knowing that you have a clear disadvantage and the whole game is going to be a struggle?
sure. i do.
i don't deny that circumstantial factors play a role, but i think you are over-emphasising their importance.
but whatever disadvantage it might be, i simply cannot bring myself to see it as insurmountable. hell, i find it a real stretch to see it as a disadvantage full stop!
i think it's fair to describe some types of chance events as 'pure luck' (good or bad). being hit with flying debris from a near by implosion-gone-wrong would certainly be a case of 'pure bad luck'. classic wrong place at the wrong time kind of stuff.
the circumstances into which you were born are a prime (THE prime) example of this kind of luck. absolutely nothing at all to do with you. pure chance. (unless you subscribe to some intentional-creation-by-higher-being philosophy)
but if you are going to think like this, maybe you could also look at the other side of the coin. at all the times you had blind 'good luck'.
in the end, i really fail to see the value of trying to categorise the events in your life as being cases of 'good' or 'bad' luck (or varying degrees of such). even if you succeed in labeling everything that's happened in your life this way, and, in the final analysis, you determine that you've had an inordinate share of 'bad' luck, then what? is the world going to stop spinning? is everyone supposed to give you a minute of silence in recognition of the 'bad' luck you've had? at the end of the day, you're still going to be where you are and still have the rest of your life to live.
worrying about whether something was 'good' or 'bad' luck won't do a damn thing to change that.
my view is that we all, at every moment of our lives, have a choice of what to focus on. if we focus on how bad things are, on how much things 'suck', on how 'unlucky' we were, on "why am i such a loser", on why "some people have all the luck", on "why is this happening to me", it's a safe bet, i think, that we're going to continue to have more of the same.
if, instead, we focus on what we
can do about our circumstances, on the possibilities for bettering our lives, on
how we can turn things around, on how we can make improvements, on the good things we
do have (instead of crying for the moon about what we don't), that alone -- those kinds of thoughts, that kind of
focus -- goes a long, long way to making our experience on earth a positive (happy, fulfilling, etc) one.