For sure you should just focus on what makes you happy. But actually I find people have different perspective for a home trader vs a hedge fund or bank trader. If you are working for a hedge fund as a trader, thats viewed upon positively. So if someone thinks when you say "you trade stocks" that you mean in WS, thats looked upon positively. But if its "I trade at home in my PJs with my own money", thats very often viewed upon negatively. Depends if people know what is meant by "i trade stocks".
The negative connotation is based on the 'lack of job' aspect, the 'risky' aspect, and the 'likely earns very little' aspect of the @home trade their own money trader. Usually that is true. An @ home trader likely has less capital and their yearly profits are likely not high unless you are a super trader or have large capital to work with. If you are working as a WS bank trader, you'll get all sorts of salary and bonuses so you probably do make more than a home trader.
you are right. at home trader is viewed as an unemployed loser. loner. less money and likely not smart enough to trade OTM. But if you do have money (my house is paid off, car paid off, no debt, nice area) then the conversation goes nowhere. Why? Lifestyle. I can buy what they buy, go where they (the employed) go, do what they do, etc....so then who cares? if you are insecure, this won't work. yes this is risky, but i don't risk now what i used to. don't have to. less stress. more time to stay active.
i see groups of friends for a few hours a day for exercise or dinner or whatever. we talk about work maybe 1% of the time. nobody cares in my circles. but if i said i can't go to france because i am broke....well, now i'm the loser unemployed moron.