Quote from Peri:
"destroyed families"
Everyone take a reality check. More families are destroyed by porn addictions which result in loss of trust, intimacy, and human connection, thus demise, than alcohol or pot. Good God how many times have I read on this board, "what do you do in the slow times?" "PORN"
sounds like your confusing lack of communication with "porn addiction" (as if we are not all hard wired to want sex)
this needs to be done before your married.
for example if you like porn and the person your dating says that its evil or bad and doesn't want to watch it and you should not either than simple, don't marry them if you plan to ever do it again. Its no different than 10 million other things that can piss the other person off. (spending money on things the other person doesn't want money spent on comes to mind)
feeling hurt because the other person watched porn is a symptom of not having an open and honest relationship not the cause of it.


) pot helped me relax and trade freely.