Quote from Vel:
ok guys thanks a bunch for the pointers. I have basically decided that in all honesty, day trading is going to be the only career option that I would be able to handle. I want to make a million bucks in 5 years. I'm a genrally unmotivated person but something happened in the past week to motivate me to get my ass in gear and start learning and getting money ready to play the game.
Tips:
Don't listen to anyone on ET -- it can be done.
It isn't easy.
Here is the progression I went (am going through):
1) Total cockiness (i.e. I am a trading machine)
2) Blissful naivity (I could never get hurt in the market!)
3) Total Anxiety attack (I'm in my first f%$%ing ES trade -- oh #$#@!)
4) Emotional confusion (i.e. it looked so easy on paper!)
5) Wreckless trading (Screw systems I can do this!)
6) Anger / Revenge (i.e. "I'm out $500!! I want that money back!!)
7) More wreckless trading
8) Calming period (i.e. If I keep this up, i'm going to blow out my account)
9) Internal Realization (I have self-destructive tendencies that I need to fix)
10) Humbling Period (i.e. Market doesn't care who I am -- it isn't a person to be smoozed over)
11) Priority Alignment (I want to make money, not try to prove myself right by taking a bunch of +1 ES scalps for a lot of -3 ES losses)
12) Reduction of trades / Patience (I don't need to trade because I can, I will learn to sit all day and wait for that perfect set-up)
13) Losses lessen, winners get larger (I *AM* a good trader, I just wasn't very disciplined)
14) Confidence building (I can be profitable and still lose on a larger % of my trades)
15) System / Discipline building/ Slow down (I'm in no rush to make huge money -- it will come in time)
FYI, I am becoming more profitable each day -- the losses are more numerous, but once you find a system and the right mental set-up to trade it, you will find success.
However, it isn't easy. I look at charts all the time until I can't stand it. I force myself to observe patterns. I write programs to assist in my discovery.
Again, you can do it. The road is long, but it can be followed if you have your heart into it. You really *must* want to succeed.
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