Are we talking about "means tested assistance programs" here or welfare payments. You and the others seem to be talking about worthless lazy people who get paid cash money by the government to sit around doing nothing, which is what is usually called "welfare". That program in the U.S. is called TANF and has a 60 month lifetime limit.TANF is just one of many means-tested assistance programs in the US.
There are a number of other programs that fall under the "means tested assistance" umbrella. They include:
SNAP - Essentially food stamps. We generally agree as a society not to let people starve.
Medicaid - If you've got cerebral palsy we care enough not to think you're lazy for not working.
Section 8 Housing - Again, we generally think homelessness isn't something anyone should have to undergo, hence this thread.
WIC - We generally don't think kids should starve because their parents are lazy.
If you want to call that "welfare" and hate on those people I guess that's up to you. If you think a person can live on Section 8, SNAP, and WIC for an entire lifetime you have no idea how those programs work and have clearly never actually had a real conversation with a real live human who has had to live on them.