Partly, that’s true. Partly there is some level of mean reversion present probably and some is filtering through from the oil curve term premium.
But let’s say it is purely a synthetic call option (which it can’t be, since weather might also turn out unseasonably warm). There is nothing wrong with being short that kind of optionality in a reasonable size - at least it’s decorrelated from the equity markets.
The warm weather would "steepen" the contango, not shorten it. Warm weather "increases" the demand for storage. That "term" premium goes up. That is where he gets fucked on the call. During cold weather, you're pulling molecules "out of" storage thereby pushing the curve into a more backwardated structure. The so called term premium comes out. To see this more intuitively just look at HJ (the widowmaker). That is the ultimate risk trade because march is end of storage season (give or take). So march trades at a huge premium to april because of the possibility of running out of storage. That curve is deeply backwardated. A warm winter would suppress that premium. But during winter season it flips.
Warm weather raises the cost of storage because market players don't want to sell into a depressed market. You buy capacity, store it, and wait. That is why storage is a synthetic call. You own the optionality. If the cold weather never comes you eat the storage cost. If we get a polar vortex and natty goes to the moon, you exercise that call and sell into the spike. So your "buddy" wants cold weather to extract that premium, not warm.
