What's going well for you:
1) You have enough capital to withstand what life throws at you
2) You have no mortgage and little to no debt (other than 1 kid's college tuition)
3) You sold your house, why do you think this is a bad move? With the massive layoffs on wallstreet, the impact to the ny/nj housing market hasnt even started yet.
What's not going well for you:
1) Your emotion
If i were you what would i do:
1) Take a few weeks off, spend some time with the family, etc..
2) Then review your trading plan, take 40k from your account and start trading with them in SMALL positions to rebuild confidence and improve your methods.
You probably want to post another message focusing on your trading plans, to get some feedback.
edit: just saw your reply, replace the word trading with investing then
