If you trade options using market, you will buy at ask and sell at bid. But on ET we don't trade on market orders, we always use limit orders. Usually but not always, you can buy/sell at roughly mid between bid/ask so the slippages are not as bad as you said.The leverage for example, might make your put options move 10 to 1 compared to the stock price but that won't change the percentage difference between your bid and ask for the options.
Am I thinking right with this example?:
Say that I could buy one share of a large volume stock trading with a bid/ask of $9.99/10.00 for a purchase price of $10.01. I lose just 1¢ for the spread. I have a target of $10.30 and a stop of $9.71. For simplicity, let's say there's a 50/50 chance it can go either way. If it hits my target, I stand to gain 30¢ or about a 3% profit. If I lose, and it hits my stop, I stand to lose 30¢, for about a 3% loss.
Now if I could buy an option that for simplicity sake, moves with 10 X leverage. The option bid ask would be $1/1.20. I would buy one option at $1.20. If the stock moved as before up by 3%, the option would move 10 X 3% = 30% to a bid/ask of $1.30/1.55. I could sell the option at $1.30 for a 10¢ profit. If the stock moves down 3%, the option bid/ask moves down 30% to $0.70/0.84. I would sell at $0.70 for a loss of 50¢. So the way I see it, I'm taking a chance of losing 50¢ in the hopes of just 50% of the time that I gain 10¢.
You won't get mid if you are DOTM or DITM. With DITM you usually get less than intrinsic if you sell to close and for DOTM often the bid/ask are so wide you are better off not trade those.
Good luck.