Quote from traderNik:
Doesnât it seem likely to you that mixed race couples, having had the strength of mind to make a decision that they knew would be opposed by many, would be more likely to have what it takes to hold a marriage together? Donât you think that children of mixed race couples, having gone through the teasing that they might have been subjected to, would realize that their personal worth was based on more than the colour of their skin or the slant of their eyes? Donât you think that they would become adults who have a broad understanding of the things that unite us as oppose to those which divide us?
Well, yes, it does seem reasonable to think so, doesn't it?
It is often suggested that the cure for all of America's racial woes would be a few healthy rounds of miscegenation, and that way everyone come to be related to some of a different race, everyone would blend into everyone, and finally, the race problem solved.
But does the evidence bear that out?
A model often suggested is Brazil, said to be a 'racial democracy', which, I guess, means that because it is so heavily miscegenated, people of all colors get along famously. The reality, you might have guessed, is somewhat different. Go to any Brazilian forum and talk with actual Brazilians about what they think of Brazil's 'racial democracy'. They quickly tell you what a joke it is. That Brazil is
rife with racism. At that point, it's obligatory to mention that the racism isn't the 'overt' kind, said to be found in the USA. And at that point I have to laugh hard, because the examples they give of what they consider 'covert' racism seem to me a degree of magnitude greater than what one would encounter in 'overt' America. In fact, I'm tempted to conclude that Brazil is even more race obsesse than America. Here's a Brazilian forum dedicated to race in Brazil
www.brazzilrace.com although the topic is a mainstay in all Brazilian forums I have encountered.
The gist of it goes like this. Brazil is said to be populated, in the main, by 'whites', 'pardos' and 'blacks'. (There are also small numbers of Asians and native Indians.) 'White' in Brazil is either anyone European or who, while being mixed, looks European. 'Pardo' is a mix of anything, but typically of black and white, or black and indian, or white and indian, or all three, or with any other pardo. Naturally, there's a great mix of shades there, and therefore many who are 'whites' are only marginally so, and might also well describe themselves as 'pardos'. 'Blacks' are the pure Africans or the very darkest pardos. The numbers, I think go something like 53% white, 40% pardo, 6% black (without checking, I'm sure that's close enough).
As they do the world over, blacks in Brazil live in poverty at rates many times higher than whites. And as happens the world over, the cause of this is said to be widespread 'racism' on the part of whites. Unlike America, though, this throws Brazilians into a bit of a bind, because racism 'officially' doesn't exist in Brazil. Nevertheless, antiracists are making progress, and Brazil seems to be a favorite destination of African-American activists, flushed with the success of their enterprise in the US, no doubt, who jet down to stir up Brazilian blacks. A Brazilian NAACP is not yet a sure thing however, because as American blacks discover, Brazilian mulattos don't like to think of themselves as 'black'. 'Blacks, African-Americans are reminded, are the 'pure' Africans. So for now, African-Americans' first task is to get black-mulatto Brazilians to ditch their racial classifications (there are a whole host of them) and adopt the straightforward American 'one drop' rules (or something close to).
Regardless of what you make of all this, one thing is abundantly clear, race has most certainly not ceased to be an issue in heavily miscegenated Brazil. What reason is there to expect America to be different?
This whole bit about âmixed race marriage is bad for societyâ is just impossible for me to believe, and I donât think you can provide any support for this argument.
I'm not sure I really said it was bad for society. I do think it causes rifts within families though. Of course, in a free society, one can do what one wants without regard to what the family thinks, and that's not a freedom I would try to deprive people of. Ultimately, I think it's an unsound practise, but I'm quite happy to keep that opinion to myself.
Thereâs just something inside of them that, when it comes time to deal with a person face-to-face, allows them to see through the colour to the person underneath and treat them like⦠a person. To them, individual opportunity and potential trumps statistics.
Oh come on, you really think I
don't? I'm nowhere near the monster you imagine me to be. Say my godfather's daughter marry's this Jamaican. You think I'd automatically snub her or them? Lol. Or worse, that I'd be rude to the guy, or make him feel unwanted? Nik, I've never once suggested that because racial differences might be more 'real' than is commonly advertised, that therefore it's okay to go around being mean to people. Never ever have I suggsted that. I am vehemently against it. Now, it's true that I tend to not have much to do with, say, Asians or Aborigines or Muslims in Australia, but that's mostly because all my 'slots' for friends are taken. Most of my time is spent with people I already know. Whenever I have to deal with an Asian or an Indian, it's a no-brainer. It's not like i have to remind myself to 'not be racist'. Lol, absurd.