For the 1 to 2 people here that really tried to help me, I thought I'd post an update. I'm still alive and have been working at this full time.
Here's a quick summary of my activity:
Joined a couple of rooms, spent thousands.
Bought some indicators, spent thousands.
It's hard to believe I've spent the last 2 years chasing my tail. I've been in sim and study mode, so besides my snake oil purchases, I haven't lost anything besides opportunity and 2 years of my life. Perhaps I'm a little wiser. One can hope.
What I decided to do was some serious back testing. I picked a single signal, a single market, some consistent trading hours, defined some money management rules, and just started going backwards, filling up a spreadsheet.
I've been recording the entry, exit by MM rules, MFE and MAE for every occurrence of the signal, regardless of the market condition or context. If the market was clearly going up and I got a signal to go short, I recorded it as a trade.
It's very slow going, and I only have a few hundred trades recorded, but I've noticed something kind of exciting. Even though the strategy is only (so far) 52% profitable, it has averaged 17.4 ticks per day on 8.3 trades. The average MFE and MAE are such that I could increase my targets and tighten my stops to squeeze more out, but for now I'm going to continue recording the strategy as is. My goal is to accumulate 6 months of data, and this will take several weeks.
After this, I hope to write a real trading plan and achieve mechanical proficiency in execution. One of the major problems I've had has been mixing in elements of discretion without any means of measuring whether or not my these tweaks to the plan helped or hurt.
I recognize that this is advice I received a long time ago, and why I didn't take it then is beyond me.
Just wanted to say thanks to the people that showed an interest in me, and let them know that their advice is finally being used, albeit a couple of years later.