Handle123 I agree with much of what you say. Each of us has the ability for self sabotage and destruction. We all do it to some degree or another. It's when we realize that WE are in control of that that I started to do well. I am not saying we can control the markets any more than we can control the weather but we can control our reaction to them. I don't trade full time as I have a fruitful career but I do trade successfully on longer term times frames. For me I found that BOTH my career and trading changed and improved after I read Van Tharpes book "Supertrader". Despite your views that Van Tharpes self help psycho stuff is not helpful, (I know it sounds cliche,...) but it changed my life. I am a very logical thinking person and thankfully have had a good childhood so my demons were more of the wanting a big win, roller coaster feeling you get with big wins and losses. That book seemed like it was written FOR ME,...like he was talking to ME. In that book he basically says "GET OFF YOUR ASS....NO ONE IS GOING TO HAND IT TO YOU,...AND STOP DOING STUPID SHIT"! Thankfully, I took most of it to heart and set some goals and started hard work. But that hard work also made me work harder at my career and both flourished. I think deeper issues many people faced in childhood or life that thankfully I have not faced will indeed require professional help. But for me that psychobabble from the book "Supertrader" did it for me.
Just my 0.02