Quote from olias:
Obviously you're not giving him anything, so why waste your energy wondering whether he's legit or not? If he thinks that's the best way for him to get by, and other people are willing to help him out then let it be. I think you'll be happier.
I've given him money in the past. Then my wife told me she saw him all full of energy one day talking on his cell phone. Thats when i started keeping my eye on him. Sure enough, I see him walking down the street looking happy & alive and chatting away to his buddies on his cell phone, but when he gets into begging mode, he moves at a snails pace as if he is in pain. From what I understand terminal brain cancer has a life expectancy of 3 months to 1 year. This guy is going on at least 4 years and who knows how long he was there before I moved into the area.
Reminds me of another guy who held sign saying he had a 9 year old daughter to take care of and he just needed a little help. I come back 3 years later and he is still holding the same sign. Daughter is still 9 years old after 3 years.
I have more respect for those guys that hold a sign and say "why lie, I just need a beer"
