Quote from Rande Howell:
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Self talk affirmations are like ice cubes on a hot summer day. They are good while they last. This is short term change. Changing belief is very different than disrupting and replacing thought temporarily. Trading has a way of cutting right though the wishful thinking. Developing the courage and compassion to transform the belief that actually does the trading is the key.
Fundamentally developing compassion for yourself is at the core of changing self limiting beliefs. No trader I've known has gotten better for beating themselves up after mistakes. They can be taught to use compassion so that make correcting mistakes is not a statement of a person's worth, but only an assessment of their current level of competency. Many people find this reconstruction of their worth in their spiritual practices. Once worth is accepted, trading performance can be learned based on a open state of mind.
Good luck
Rande Howell
So how do I go about accepting my worth?