+1 to everything sf631 said. also make sure you're trading in the time frame that is right for your personality. i strongly suggest figuring this out sooner rather than later. do you prefer trading intraday, swing (2-10 days) or position trading (weeks-months-possibly years)?
the good news is that if you're more suited to anything but day trading you can still keep your day job (yes i know you said you hate it but if you're earning a lot of $$$ it's better than not having a job and wanting ANY job) and manage the trades while working (e.g. you set up alerts for entry/exits and whenever one goes off you put in the order either on your smartphone or broker's web browser since most employers have firewalls that block the downloadable platforms.
another suggestion is to ALWAYS improve as a trader. review every aspect of every trade and ask yourself what you did right, what you did wrong and then write down a solution. remember, even if you lost money that doesn't mean you didn't something wrong. here are a couple examples of reviewing a trade - i'm not saying you should day trade this is just an example.
Entry ES at 1312, stop at 1310, target of 1314. you're stopped out at 1310 for a 2 point loss. you look at your trading plan and see that you followed it to the letter. what you did right? you followed your entry, exit and risk management parameters. what you did wrong? nothing. solution - always stick to your trading plan (if it has positive expectancy of course - that's why it's so important to review to see what's working and what's not b/c strategies can stop working real quick).
Entry ES at 1312, stop at 1310, target 1314. ES goes to 1310 but you ignore the stop (that's why it's important to use OCO orders like in ninjatrader or any other front end software to prevent this lack of discipline) and hope price goes up back. it does and hits your target for a 4 point profit. what you did right? nothing (well if you kept your position size right that's one thing). what you did wrong? everything b/c ignoring stops WILL lead to blowing up. solution. use OCO orders and stick to trading plan.
i know this is a long post just trying to pass along some lessons i learned personally and the hard way. OP, feel free to PM me w/ any questions re starting out.
the good news is that if you're more suited to anything but day trading you can still keep your day job (yes i know you said you hate it but if you're earning a lot of $$$ it's better than not having a job and wanting ANY job) and manage the trades while working (e.g. you set up alerts for entry/exits and whenever one goes off you put in the order either on your smartphone or broker's web browser since most employers have firewalls that block the downloadable platforms.
another suggestion is to ALWAYS improve as a trader. review every aspect of every trade and ask yourself what you did right, what you did wrong and then write down a solution. remember, even if you lost money that doesn't mean you didn't something wrong. here are a couple examples of reviewing a trade - i'm not saying you should day trade this is just an example.
Entry ES at 1312, stop at 1310, target of 1314. you're stopped out at 1310 for a 2 point loss. you look at your trading plan and see that you followed it to the letter. what you did right? you followed your entry, exit and risk management parameters. what you did wrong? nothing. solution - always stick to your trading plan (if it has positive expectancy of course - that's why it's so important to review to see what's working and what's not b/c strategies can stop working real quick).
Entry ES at 1312, stop at 1310, target 1314. ES goes to 1310 but you ignore the stop (that's why it's important to use OCO orders like in ninjatrader or any other front end software to prevent this lack of discipline) and hope price goes up back. it does and hits your target for a 4 point profit. what you did right? nothing (well if you kept your position size right that's one thing). what you did wrong? everything b/c ignoring stops WILL lead to blowing up. solution. use OCO orders and stick to trading plan.
i know this is a long post just trying to pass along some lessons i learned personally and the hard way. OP, feel free to PM me w/ any questions re starting out.
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