I agree with most of what you say but I do think things have changed.
Shortly after the "CBOE black list" lawsuit, the CBOE rolled out ABP for a large number of stocks and orders sent to PAR stations are now handled much better (although still unfair). Before this lawsuit, most of my orders that were sent to PAR stations, were completely ignored (including market orders)
The PHLX will also soon allow auto executions against their client order book. I was also told by the lawyer handling the "CBOE black list" lawsuit that there were rumors that the SEC was conducting an investigation into how option orders were handled on the AMEX.
I would agree that sending letters to the SRO's is a waste of time.
So I think things have changed, changed for the better and will continue to get better as long as we keep complaining and as long as there are alternative fair exchanges (BOX and ISE).
Shortly after the "CBOE black list" lawsuit, the CBOE rolled out ABP for a large number of stocks and orders sent to PAR stations are now handled much better (although still unfair). Before this lawsuit, most of my orders that were sent to PAR stations, were completely ignored (including market orders)
The PHLX will also soon allow auto executions against their client order book. I was also told by the lawyer handling the "CBOE black list" lawsuit that there were rumors that the SEC was conducting an investigation into how option orders were handled on the AMEX.
I would agree that sending letters to the SRO's is a waste of time.
So I think things have changed, changed for the better and will continue to get better as long as we keep complaining and as long as there are alternative fair exchanges (BOX and ISE).