Caddy... I thought we were friends? What about "having my back" from now on instead of blasting me like you once promised?
That's fine, some people in this world are true to their word, some just aren't
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Everyone still reading this thread (both of you), let's talk for a moment. I'll speak in the written voice of a male perspective, and invite all females to follow along.
Suppose you are a girl, looking to mix & mingle with some guys. You walk up to a group of men, a bit hesitant but you work up the nerve to introduce yourself. Proud of your initial bravery to break the ice, you hope for a receptive welcome in return.
Here's what you get: <i>"Hey there, who do you think you are? This is "our house"... whaddya want with us? We know what yer up to... one of those gold-digger chicks just trying to take us for a ride".</i>
You step back a bit, surprised and a bit shocked at the cold reception. So you try to make friends one more time by defending yourself.
The response to your approach is met like this: <i>"Listen bitch, we think you are scum, OK? Prove to us that you have good intentions. Cook us a meal. Prove to us you can keep a house clean. Let's see you iron some shirts. Far as we're concerned, you're nothing but a lazy gold-digger not worthy of our time."</i>
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Ladies, after being treated that way by a group of guys, how many of you would be planning on the next date?
Gentlemen, how many of you would treat a woman who approaches you that way? What if they are indeed gold-diggers at heart? Would you lambaste all women by blind <b>ass</b> umption first, or have some courtesy & respect before passing final judgement?
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Had I ever once been asked nicely to show proof of anything, I would have. Instead, it's always been demanded that I prove everything first, right up front. And I ask, for what? What's in it for me?
After posting all sorts of "proof", if I pass the muster of anonymous lurkers who were once detractors (and now presumed friends) it was suggested I might, if I'm lucky, be extended some common courtesy & respect. Wow... doesn't that just make me want to do backflips and handstands.
So... any wonder why I've always reacted the way I have? Make sense? Back someone up on their heels from first contact and what do you expect? A big, warm kiss or defensive posturing? How would you react?
The older I get, the more I realize how little I know about life. There are two things I feel pretty sure of in this case:
#1: Too many people assumed I was here for an agenda... and I'm not.
#2: By pure odds of probability, I'm willing to bet at least one of the people who lambasted me (now presumed to be friends) all over this forum have never made $10,000 net profits in a single session, ever. By the same token, my wager says at least one of the former detractors has not made $16,000 net profits all year, let alone since September 4th to date.
Who's willing to fade those bets?
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http://www.elitetrader.com/vb/showthread.php?s=&postid=1203040#post1203040</b>
The proof you seek will be found at tonight's backyard party. See you there!
Austin T Passamonte (no J's in the name)