just a thought for you to consider -- for many people religion is based on being thankful.
There are many wealthy smart succesful christians who have lived very full lives. They are not sitting there thinking, oh my god I might die tomorow and my existence will cease.
many go to church frequently to thank god for the lives they lived or continue to hope to live.
I had no fear of dying and for about a decade lived a pretty good life. I choose to believe in God out of love for life not fear.
I used to chase after large surf and do some other rather adventurous activites. I was fortunate enough to make substantial cash off one large business case as a lawyer and then I made decent money trading for about 5 years. So I was young and living in San Diego without any responsibilities and some cash.
My mom used to ask me what if you die.
(she was very concerned about my surfing and mountains sports)
I told her -- on my gravestone I wanted her to write "this man had a free lunch".
I was thankful for that life and went to church out of happiness not fear.
I will admit, now, that I have become the father of little children, have more responsiblities and less income -- I am fearful of dying, but not for myself for my kids. Beliving in God can give you great peace. But that peace is not the opposite of fear. And that peace is worth knowing.
There are many wealthy smart succesful christians who have lived very full lives. They are not sitting there thinking, oh my god I might die tomorow and my existence will cease.
many go to church frequently to thank god for the lives they lived or continue to hope to live.
I had no fear of dying and for about a decade lived a pretty good life. I choose to believe in God out of love for life not fear.
I used to chase after large surf and do some other rather adventurous activites. I was fortunate enough to make substantial cash off one large business case as a lawyer and then I made decent money trading for about 5 years. So I was young and living in San Diego without any responsibilities and some cash.
My mom used to ask me what if you die.
(she was very concerned about my surfing and mountains sports)
I told her -- on my gravestone I wanted her to write "this man had a free lunch".
I was thankful for that life and went to church out of happiness not fear.
I will admit, now, that I have become the father of little children, have more responsiblities and less income -- I am fearful of dying, but not for myself for my kids. Beliving in God can give you great peace. But that peace is not the opposite of fear. And that peace is worth knowing.