For what it's worth- it's my understanding that when you place a stop with IB, nobody sees it. (Equities anyway; I don't trade futures or place stops on options positions, but I'd assume it is the same).
As IB does prop trading, it would be a conflict of interest for them to see customers' stop orders, thus it is kept on a computer away from humans, or so IB has told me whenever I've bitched about a fill.
Like I said, these stops are kept on IB's computers and are not sent to any MM or exchange until the stop price is triggered and the order is activated.
The benefit of this is that if your machine goes down, the stop is on IB's hardware and will stay alive, keeping you protected.
Be aware that there are different rules for how stop are triggered with different exchanges, i.e. nasdaq vs NYSE. You should check with your broker.
Tip - If you have a stop placed with IB and use TWS, if you change that stop
don't forget to click "Transmit" again, otherwise the stop will remain unchanged, even though the new stop price is displayed in TWS under "Pending," making you
think that your stop has been changed, when in reality it hasn't.