No, most of the time stops are not directly taken out, it is indirect although both have the same end result so people obviously gravitate to the one that makes them feel better. If it's indirect in most cases it's your inexperience and you have no-one to blame but yourself. Actually if it's direct it's also inexperience but most people feel better lying to themselves that it wasn't their fault by blaming someone else.
The markets love pure confidence and help strip you of capital if you have anything less. You can be confident with a 20% of account stop, or confident with a 0.5% of trade stop, but most will place stops due to insecurity not confidence. Then it really doesn't matter where you place the stops, the markets will with pinpoint precision happily relieve you of that capital.
It's all about money finding the best home, and if you place your trades, and therefore your stops, in the wrong place that home will be with someone else who has more confidence. Survival of the fittest, money makes money, and all that jazz!