Originally posted by aphexcoil
Today I learned something new. An advanced trader may be able to use mental stops. However, a new trader better have hard stops to protect against the very thing that happened to me. I would have probably lost $100 less had I had a hard stop in place.
In fact, the thing was moving so fast that I was probably losing $10 a second.
Lessons Learned:
1) Don't be in the market before one of the largest US companies announces earnings afterhours.
2) If you are learning how to trade, don't pretend you're a market maker.
3) Use hard stops.
This isn't the time to experiment. If you are going to experiment, do it on a simulator or on paper. Stay within yourself as they say in pro sports. If you have only practiced daytrading, then always get out before the close. If you aren't used to trading after 4:00 PM, then don't put on a trade then. If you usually don't trade in the first half hour or last half hour then don't experiment with those times now. If you haven't traded a particular market yet, then don't start trading it live for goodness sake.
Don't try to be the hero and guess which way a news report will move the market. There is no insurance for when the crystal ball fails to work correctly.
And no, you haven't made all the mistakes you can possibly make. There are hundreds more and all can cost you money. Try to take it slow. Slow the bleed. This is your tuition money, so be serious about learning something. You now have the obstacle of fear to overcome in addition to all the normal trading challenges. You need to have confidence to trade successfully so don't let the fear force your actions.
When everyone starts trading they "know" it will hurt to lose money and they "know" they will probably lose money. But after we have lost money we all say that we never really believed we could lose, and we never really knew what losing would be like.
Go for singles, not home runs. Don't try to get it all back at once or you will lose it all at once. Think Singles, Singles, Singles. Get your confidence back by doing some simulated trading. Get your timing. Check your plan. Do the homework on your past trades. Everyone loses. It is what you do after you lose that is important.