I don't make anywhere near 200k, call me a piker if you like, my life is incredibly awesome.
I think people who sit at a desk for 12 hours a day with 6 monitors, spending countless hours on development and backtesting are pikers. Then they come to EliteTrader and have a contest about who's smarter and/or the best trader.
If you want to be successful, stop believing what people say on this forum. You are getting advice from people who don't trade successfully (there are some smart people, you just have to dig. Mav, Bone, etc..). It's like getting tips for succeeding in the NFL from a guy who just got cut from his highschool football team.
I spend around 4-6 hours a day trading, from a laptop, while traveling the world. I make 1-2 trades a day and rarely trade on Fridays. If that's a piker, I'll take it.
The secret? It's different for everyone. What changed my career was ignoring all trades that don't deliver at least a 5R return on my risk. It's very hard to screw up those odds.
I started trading for the freedom and that's what it has provided.
**Sorry for the rant and no offense meant towards the OP. However, when I was younger and struggling many years ago it was threads like these that discouraged me and sent me down the wrong path. I hope everyone here finds success trading, but have a salt shaker nearby because every thread on here should be taken with a grain of salt.