Anyone else get negative response when you explain career?

Quote from Kastro_316:

Hey Guy's

Sorry for the off topic question but for the past while now every time i try to explain what i do (Trading) i get such a negative responce, its crazy.
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I normally don't talk about it.

I learned my lesson when I was a pro poker player/gambler.

"What do you do?"

"I play cards, mostly."

Blank stares. Lot's of "Oh." Like I'm some sort of degenerate. Like I'm some broke-ass hobo with his last $5 at a craps table.

They didn't get it. They don't really get trading either. I would recommend you don't tell people you want to be a trader. Don't mention it. Wait until you're successful and then say it. If they act like a dick tell em how much you made. That tends to shut people up.
 
with poker being so popular. successful card players are treated like stars. maybe someone should start a daytrading tornoument...just a thought.
 
Quote from nike:

with poker being so popular. successful card players are treated like stars. maybe someone should start a daytrading tornoument...just a thought.
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only problem is luck strikes people more often in poker than in trading...
 
So, you lie?

Quote from danielc1:

I have learned something from a friend of mine who is very successful with his Amwaybusiness. He had the same problem I have when people asked him what he was doing.
The negative reaction came out of that people always thought that he was contacting them to get them in his business but in reality he was just responding to there question what he does.
Anyway, he has changed the answer when people asked what he does. He now reply with the standard answer: I work for a large multinational. O, yeah? which one? his answer: Mine! No more negative responses.

If people now ask what I do for a living I say: I'm an investment banker for a very large private bank. O, yeah? which one? Mine!

No more negative responses, either.
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I don't see it as a lie. I do the same work as an investment banker and I work for my own corporation that is setup to invest in other corporation or financial instruments with its own capital. The same as an investment bank. Where do you see the lie?
 
First off when anybody asks you what you do for a living chances are they want to tell you what they do. Ego! And unless they donate 100% of their time to charity or the church I would promptly tell them to fuck off if they had an issue...nobody works for free.
Bottom line is who cares what other people think? As an 30 year floor trader for BSC once told me "if trading is in your blood you will never do anything else" and if it`s truly in your blood then accept and embrace it!!!
 
yeah. everyone thinks you're a useless greedy b*stard leach. they don't understand that market makers make markets possible and without us it would be back to the caves.
 
Quote from aPismoClam:

yeah. everyone thinks you're a useless greedy b*stard leach. they don't understand that market makers make markets possible and without us it would be back to the caves.
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ECNs ?
 
Most common response:

ME: "I'm a trader."

DOUCHEBAG: "Trainer?"

ME: "No. Trader. I daytrade bonds."

DOUCHEBAG: "ooooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhh!"

Then they either:

A) Walk away.

B) Talk my ear off.
 
Quote from coolweb:



You need to back it up with a benz and some $$$$ :)

Or else you are just another fade of their past investing bubble experience "hahah day trader? yeaaah ok, I use to make $5k in daytrading but I lost it all "
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I'd have to agree, for these people there is only one measure of success, a showing of wealth. You don't have to flaunt it, just show them it is there.

With trading, you are either really really smart, or really really stupid in end. In other words, you either made money or you lost it all.
 
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