Bullying was always an issue but never like it is now with social media. The individual self worth for troubled kids can be destroyed with one social media post and then you get a school shooting.
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That is sooooo so true. Just in general, I mean yeah these kids that shoot up a school are messed up, but just overall, social media is horrible for this. That's why the suicide rate and suicide ideations are so damn high. A healthy self image and self esteem is probably the most important thing in a teen's development. More so than grades, sports, anything. Success in those follows a healthy self-esteem.
I tell this story to a lot of young parents I have the pleasure of knowing>> Way back in the day, we were in 8th grade and they field tripped us to our future high school. We got the tour. They took us into the computer lab, (yes they actually had those, but they were way in their infancy.) and some girl that was instructed to show us around was set up to give us a demo on one of these stand alone machines with 12X12 black and white screen.
She says "Somebody give me your name." Being the always outspoken and rambunctious VZ that I still am, I shouted out my name. She goes "Spell it." I was in such a hurry, I transposed two letters, ie spelled my name wrong. Well my little circle of friends caught it, and while it sounds funny now, at the time, they used that at every opportunity they could to tease me. Now of course I was an assh*le too, so most of the time I had it coming, kinda like you guys down here go back and forward, but it did kind of bother me.
The point being, that was only a close circle of friends. Today that would be the entire school. Can you imagine what a teenage girl feels like if she lets a guy get to 3rd base and he brags about it on social media?! All the sudden she's "a slut" and the whole friggin school knows it. Probably including the teachers and some parents too. That would be horrible.
I dunno. It's not gonna go away, its molding our culture. Where its going I have no idea. But make no mistake, the advent of social media and everyone having a computer in their hand... is not healthy overall.
jmho.