I'm dead serious. I know so many husband/wife combos that fit the description you mentioned above that there is absolutely nothing unique about your situation. The husband works and the wife takes care of him, the home, and kids if applicable. For you to say that there are no women in america who fit that exact role is just ridiculous.
Focusing on where we agree on ...... amongst the people that I know the vast majority are divorced and broken, but I do know 4 families that are exemplary in that the American wife supports her husband implicitly - yeah, HE comes first and what you earlier criticized, she serves HIM and does so happily. The result is a relief to behold - a towering MAN, full of vigor and power. The physical Universe has no defense against such a MAN. But as I said, his brethren are getting slaughtered.
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For me, she is the most beautiful, smartest, and amazing woman a man could want. She is my best friend, my companion through the good times and bad, and she has proven herself to be a woman of real character. Although other countries may have plenty of solid, marriage-quality women, all I can share is that I FOUND MINE RIGHT HERE, in the good ol' USA, and I couldn't imagine my life with anyone else. So although we can disagree about where the best women are located geographically, I think we can all agree that when you find the right woman for you, life doesn't get any better.