I can tell you there are still some good american woman out there whose only focus is not just money but finding them can be a challenge
Q.E.D.

I can tell you there are still some good american woman out there whose only focus is not just money but finding them can be a challenge

It's not all easy with a Thai wife. If mine gets really angry, she shows it by not talking to me.
On second thought, that's a good thing, because it could be worse -- she could continue talking to tell me all about it !!
With skin now crawling, this concludes further conversation on my end.



Sure, I meet marriage quality girls all the time. Look, guys try to make women so complicated when they're actually not at all. At the heart of every woman are two basic needs. The first is the need to be listened to.
What's really confusing for most guys is when his girl starts inexplicably doing strange things that cause the man to mumble WTF?? Where did that comment/action come from? Women start doing crazy things when their emotional frustration builds up. This frustration may not have anything to do with you. It could be something a friend of hers said to make her feel insecure, or perhaps she's in a tiff with her sister and it's bothering her. These are the times that she needs her first need met. By you asking, "Hey what's on your mind? You seem a little down today.", you've just enabled her to dump emotionally and get everything off of her chest. But here is the key...... She's not looking for a solution to her problems, so don't listen solely with the intent of problem solving. That will only annoy her. All she wants is for you to listen and show some interest in what her current problems are, not fix them. Give her that outlet when she needs it, and quickly she'll turn back into her normal self. Neglect her desire to be listened to, and she will continue saying and doing weird things to get your attention.
The second desire she has is the need to feel secure. If you can meet her basic needs in that way, then she will meet all of your needs. The problem is that many guys are looking for a girl who can actually take care of herself. Even if a woman has the ability to take care of herself financially, it's not the optimum scenario for her. Why? Because when she takes care of herself, she's always having swirling thoughts about what would happen if she lost her job, or got hurt, or whatever. But when the man provides his girl with security, it releases a ton of worry and anxiety because now she has somebody in her life that is really stepping up for her. And if she chooses to continue working, she will enjoy her job at a level she never experienced because she knows you have her back no matter what.
So the question is not whether girls are marriage quality or not, it's really a question of whether you can meet their two basic needs. If you can, then she'll be everything you want in a woman. If you can't, then you'll be like so many other guys who are either stuck in a bad relationship, remain single, or just date around moving from one girl to another wondering why none of those relationships have really worked out.

The evidence via reading materials had to be presented first to the shafted American male - I've done this in this thread. As you will note even with American experts telling it the way it is, the American male remains recalcitrant. That's how deep this thing runs. F___g incredible
Now you get a dose of AfterLos distillation:
AfterLos boils the subject of American "women" down to BASIC-BASIC for kindergarten American Men:
From a young age American women are taught to nail a financially successful MAN. This is seared into their minds. Coterminous to that foundation is the development of skilled usage of the dish of sex as a control and punishment tool. American women have mastered this to the nth.
An American woman's deeply subterranean subconscious goal is to bring a MAN to his knees, then when she has him there, getting him to finance ALL her whims and fantasies AND babies and their education, all the while already having broken his manhood by denying him sex at around the 6-month mark after marriage ; later when even the sorry dilapidated state of her MAN becomes too insipid to bear on a daily basis, she files for divorce on some flimsy excuse - and then finds a male replacement after taking her husband to the cleaners in a debilitating, humiliating Divorce Court drama and then dig this, putting the final nail in his coffin and breaking his spine with the expert cold and vicious handling of denying him the children - this last one kills a MAN in an ogonblick.
Only AfterLos can rescue such a broken MAN and bring him back to the fighting warrior that he natively is.
22 MEN saved already, 16 from California, 3 from NYC, 1 from Texas, 1 from Michigan, 1 from Montana
AfterLos, August 2014

Trust me, it's even worse for me...a black man because black women are 10x's time worse than other American women.

First some background. I am a trader from Europe who tries to maximise his time in Thailand. I've done Chiang Mai, Bangkok, Pattaya (as you can see from my name!), Phuket... the works.... on multiple occasions.
Listen to AfterLOS... he speaks the truth about Thai women vs Western women. I have been through the shits with white women and my life and mental wellbeing has been saved by Thai women. Yes, I screw around... but I also have loving relationships... and the girls understand and forgive.
When you are with a white woman, you feel belittled, treaded upon and used and abused. Sex is used as a weapon, by withholding it.
With a Thai woman, the roles of man and woman and clear and separate. The feminist bullsht does not exist out there. Women want to be women. Oh, and they LOOK like women... white women generally look like men, have crap skin and age like lizards.
Thank you AfterLOS. This may not be a trading thread, but it is one of the most valuable threads on this site.
