Tall Mike please forgive me if I was being rude man. I am not trying to justify me being a d*** but I am still a freshman trader and am a member of this "elitetraders" forum for several reasons. Seeing the constant negativity posted on this forum in regards to this business, I feel has had a negative effect on my psychology and therefor my bottom line. Furthermore, there are so many wannabe traders that dont even have enough to daytrade retail (30k just to even have a tiny,intsy bintsy cushion over PDT, than someone says they have a 100k but this isnt EVEN "enough" to make a living (you can get up to 20x margin on 5-10k at a prop firm, = 100-200k buying power just FYI).
I did get a little emotional because it is such a negative mindstate, and I have read such negativity on here that I was questioning whether being a member here is not only wasting my time but actually hurting me.
So for starters, you dont really give much information. For example, shining shoes might not be "worth it" to a kid who lives on the upper westside and parents pay for him to go to private school, while a kid from a village in Paraguay might find it "worth it". You don't really give any goals or expectations that we can even begin to actually answer your questions. You do however make bold statesments, such as "even with a 100k bankroll you cant make a living". What exactly do you consider a living? I know traders that would try and make a 1g a day with that, trading conservatively, however I still cant say if an "average" of say 16k a month is a "living" for you. So basically, your question is very vague, and is actually much more of a statement. Not sure how you expect any real answers other than from losers to tell you what you probably already feel that its not something you care to do.
It kind of sucks you have to come to "elitetraders" to confirm your bias/idea to not trade. Ive heard from countless traders that, "trading for a living will be the hardest thing you ever do", Ive worked some really s*** jobs and commission only sales, and although I am still new I think I agree with that statement. Also, dude everything isnt for everybody and there shouldnt be no shame in acknowledging that, its much better I believe to know what works for you. for example, everyone will tell you being a doctor is the best job, status, meaning, helping humanity, but dude no way I could ever do that job, for starters I cant stand the amount of responsibility I'd have for some one elses health and would be miserable every ****ing day. I am not ashamed of it, and sure I could make the big bux and blah, blah, blah. To me "its not worth it, nor could I have the desire to get through 10+ years of study & residency. Just an example.
In ending my mentor tells his kids that there is no way in ****ing **** they can be traders. He makes what I consider a fantastic living (knock on wood). Just something to think about.
So, main point is we cant really answer your question because its too vague and more of a statement. To even just agree or disagree would be disingenuous.
And good luck whether you decide trading is for you or isnt.