Doug, I am moving away from ES,,,but I have alot of experience with it. Yes, you are pulling too many trades IMO. My average on ES is 4.5 per day... Every time I enter a trade there are only three outcomes, win/lose/break-even. My goal is to step into the game and put myself at risk as few times as possible each day and achieve my profit targets. Sure come days are better than others, but for the ES with my criteria there is about 3-5 setups per day. I WAS a big over-trader in years past. I know that I was pushing marginal setups. Now, my setups are more picky to enter.
I hope that makes sense.
I believe the time spent in SIM is really good. Once it becomes robotic, you are ready.
good luck to you...