When I read this for the first time, it shook me (the 9-to-5 one!). I was just starting on my journey. I think I am still yet to prove to myself I'm not one of those. Anyway, all Brett's stuff is a must read as far as I'm concerned. Hope it will be helpful on your journey.
http://traderfeed.blogspot.com/2006/11/three-market-idiots.html?m=1
Do you still have your job or did you quit it to pursue a career in trading or did you put your family in a difficult financial situation via your trading ???
That should answer if you classify yourself as Idiot #2 (the 9 to 5 one) in Brett's article.
Traders should never quit their jobs to pursue trading when there's many other options such as taking a leave of absence, change work schedule so that its easier to trade, move to a different time zone so that it doesn't compete with your trading schedule, trade only on day's off or vacation days.
The economy and growth in retail trading in today's markets is not suitable to quit their jobs to become a retail trader as it once was back in the 90's. In addition, in today's market conditions, you really need to save up enough income for a few years of salary along with your trading account to have a fighting chance to treat your trading like a business.
I've met too many traders quitting their jobs and they didn't even backtest their trade method, didn't test it with real money on days off from work or vacation or leave of absence...
They just jumped into the cold waters and figure it will just work in their favor. Resulting in not being able to manage the unusual stress conditions that they put themself into.
Trading is
not suitable for anyone that can open a trading account or read a trading book. At the minimum, they gotta have enough money saved up to pay all of their living expenses including insurance/medical coverage as if they had a job for a few years along with being properly capitalized to be able to produce the needed income for their lifestyle.
Seriously, they typical person that has a job and decides to start their own business...they at least do that start up business on the side until they have the income level from the business to justify quitting their job.
Unfortunately, most traders throw that out the window...ignoring they gotta treat their trading like a business.
wrbtrader