Am I a Fool For Wanting To Be a Speculator?

I'm unsure of how anyone can make it work with that attitude. "Give it a shot" prepares one to fail, that's my view anyway.
OP needs a clear plan, the "core" of which should be profitable over longer term. Hoping it works out isn't a plan.

Probably right.
 
I don't know what it means to trade physical goods but there is no point feeling dejected. Just do what you need to do.
example being that I was buying and selling cars as soon as I was 16 and had my dealers license when I was 18 years old to go to private vehicle auctions. I have done some type of buying and selling for a profit whether it be a vehicles or whatever most of my life.

the biggest difference is that I am really good at selling things and stocks or derivatives don’t give a shit how friendly or personable you are lol.
 
example being that I was buying and selling cars as soon as I was 16 and had my dealers license when I was 18 years old to go to private vehicle auctions. I have done some type of buying and selling for a profit whether it be a vehicles or whatever most of my life.

the biggest difference is that I am really good at selling things and stocks or derivatives don’t give a shit how friendly or personable you are lol.

Trading in tickers is just as much a merchandising business as buying and selling cars...understand this and you will do well.

Cost basis reduction...
 
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example being that I was buying and selling cars as soon as I was 16 and had my dealers license when I was 18 years old to go to private vehicle auctions. I have done some type of buying and selling for a profit whether it be a vehicles or whatever most of my life.

the biggest difference is that I am really good at selling things and stocks or derivatives don’t give a shit how friendly or personable you are lol.

Think like the MLB. You are a minor leaguer green in the ears thinking you are good enough to play in the MLB? Good luck with that. You are playing with professional MLB players with lots of experience and you are a rank amateur baseball player with little to no experience and expect to compete? Not even close Charlie. Try again in a couple of years assuming you put in the effort to be a better baseball player.
 
I really don't want this to be another "trading is a waste of time thread" but more of a reflection on my experience while looking for honest opinions.

Results are everything and Circumstances reveal you to yourself...

- In 2019 I was unemployed and decided to pursue my dreams of being a trader. I invested HUNDREDS of hours in instructional videos while reading several books on trading. I deposited ~$75k from my savings to trade with, (already had some long term positions in my account equaling ~$25k).

- The results: I will spare you the details of what trades fucked me the most and get down to business...my income for 2019 is around -$20k (negative twenty thousand dollars). Im not 100% sure on the exact amount as i haven't gotten my annual statement but its ballpark. I honestly have no clue what to even do with that...my CPA is going to slap me across the nipples when he sees this shit.

The question i have wrestled with for months now is: Should I throw trading away since i obviously suck so bad at it and pursue something else...or dump more effort and energy into it? I lurk mostly here and see so few people actually making it at trading it is discouraging. and then i wonder if those few who are making big money...did they get their initial millions via trading at home?

My inability to make a decision and move forward either way is a weakness and has completely crippled me. On one hand i want to be a trader on the other I doubt the possibility. I have spent so much time meditating on the pursuit of what is meaningful: what would i like to make a living doing more so than trading, only to come up blank.

I am curious what the ET community has to say after reading my embarrassing story. I am especially curious to hear from any members who are making consistent annual profits.

thanks

As i'm reading down your page, i get hung up on the instructional video'S? What instructional videos have you watched? Are they just about how to bring up charts or use your dome order entry system? I can'y go further until i get an answer. Details are important, so far your providing very little.
 
The statistics are not true. It is more like 100% of the traders will find succes if they follow some simple rules:
1. Go find something to support your lifestyle. You can only support your lifestyle with trading when you are consistent profitable.
2. To get consistent profitable you must develop a system that suits your personality.
3. There for your first job is really knowing who you are and if you have some trauma in your life that upsets you from the past and is not handled properly. Seek a therapist if this is so
4. When you know yourself, you can start developing a system.
5. First write down what your trading has to accomplish for you. Objective’s
5. A good system trades from the bigger picture, where you zoom in to control the risk you are going to take and where you have a risk ratio of 1 to 3 or more.
6. Learn about expectancy and money management to meet your objective’s.
7. If you are stuck, go find help. Thinking about it does not work.
 
Trading in tickers is just as much a merchandising business as buying and selling cars...understand this and you will do well.

Cost basis reduction...

What are you talking about? They are nothing alike.

How do you make your call options look prettier than the other guys?
 
Soeculation is a tough game - to succeed you have to get two things right: your individual trades have to be profitable and you have to make enough trades to make the endeavor worthwhile.

In any other “buying-selling” activity you really only have to worry about making enough trades as the profit part is generally inherent to the activity.
 
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