Quote from thotspeed:
sandygray, jeffrey, boib, carb...
Thanks much for the advice and suggestions on improving patience and discipline. They're all excellent.
The crazy thing is... intellectually, I KNOW what I'm supposed to do and not do, but something wacky happens in the heat of actual trading and the best laid plans go out the window!
The idea of trading sim and real together is a great one.
Thanks all,
thotspeed
This additional information may be helpful, although, it should be in the psychology section.
Why donât you have patience? Is it laziness, procrastination, out of comfort zone, fear of success, and/or fear of failure, allowing others negative vibrations (signals) affect you, not willing to do what it takes to have what others donât have? These are questions you need to ask, and answer, yourself while realizing that you donât need to know the exact answer. After making a decision commit to just do it--whatever it takes.
Evidently, you are not doing what it takes. There are times when I donât do what it takes missing setups, because of other things on my mind, or being tired. I either need to change my state of mind, or if I am feeling exhausted Iâll decide to take the day off yet take time to go over, and contemplate a few winning set ups so that my state of mind is back in check for the next session. Focusing and thinking of winning setups takes mind work.
How much money do you have a burning desire to make per day? Devise a workable trading plan, which will provide this amount now, or at a future date.
You said its funny, because you know what you need to do. Work on maintaining that state of mind being alert, and paying attention to detail. A mantra to that effect is in order. âStay Alert and Pay Attention to Detailâ This has works for me, and I use it in everything I set my mind to master, and then to stay at that level of mastery.
Make a decision and commit to do whatever it takes.
By admitting impatience as a problem youâre likely accepting it as an excuse to avoid trading successfully. Remember, as soon as you have a thought of impatience, or see a missed setup, get alert and pay attention to detail for the next setup. (stop chatting in a chat room accept to ask for setup validation if you want to mentor off a certain trader)
Donât be like a typical fatty joining a gym with a $300 annual membership, but never followed a written plan if he or she had one. (or they show up and talk more than work out) Or, a young women with good intentions to give the best sex she can receives advice from her older friend to work on setups until you can do 80 in two minutes, but replies with, âBut I donât like setupsâ.
It comes down to Just Do It as planned! (Try to hang, and ingratiate, with people incorporating a goal-oriented mindset)
Jeffrey
, keep posting..good to see some of the charts posted during rthrs..btw, some 20 round trips in the s&p, scored +375$, one car; this stuff can be tiring if you give it
wish it was on real account..