Coaching group I am a part of got a homework assignment. We are two give an advice to a hypothetical new trader regarding two of the most likely problems they will encounter. It’s intended to benefit the person dispensing the advice, not the other way around.
#1 Inability to accept/take initial loss.
Loosing in a trade seems so final and irreversible. You start extrapolating … if I loose X every trade, I will be down Y by the end of the month and out of money by the end of the year.
Also, due to mean reverting nature of the markets, loosing trades always seem to come back and even turn into would be gains!
Advice: Taking losses is part of the job description for a pro trader! Losses are an integral part of trading, they must not be avoided! They must be accepted to be considered a professional trader.
Inability to take a pre-determined loss, will lead to taking much bigger loss eventually or sitting in a draw-down watching opportunities pass by. But the biggest issue is - you will never be able to size up because you can’t trust yourself to take that initial loss!
Condition yourself to accept the pre-determined loss prior to taking the trade. If you have the edge, losses are just expenses of doing business. If you don’t have the edge, losses are your insurance premiums for surviving long enough to gain the edge.
#2 FOMO
As a new trader, it’s difficult to understand context in which you are trading. Some days require to be more aggressive, some more patient, some to be inactive. Because day traders have limited window of opportunity - usually around the open -
you will often experience urgency to take a trade because, if you miss this one, you may be sitting on your hands all day or try to force trades. Related to this is taking entries pre-maturely. It’s difficult to see your would be trade work without you.
Advice:
Condition yourself to seek perfection with your signals. Expect the stock to do exactly what you expect it to do. If it doesn’t, let it go! This was not your money to take. If you take the perfect signal which does not work out (because it’s still a game of probabilities, not certainties), you can accept it. But if you take a sub-par signal and it results in a loss (see#1 above), you will fill like an idiot.
Have a maximum number of signals to take per your trading window. This number must be small enough to make you very selective and patient. Accept the fact that you may not trade at all that day. Let go of “missed” opportunities.
Inability to take a loss and FOMO-ing comes from not having a trading process/not having confidence in your trading process/not knowing the shortcomings of your trading process. If you have a process you can greatly reduce the influence of those feelings on you. A trading process includes the preparation of your mind for the highly intensive intellectual and psychological game that is trading. It includes having tested and refined a trading system for different market conditions and time horizons, even better - having chosen one that best suits your preferences and natural tendencies. It includes knowing the expectancy of that chosen system and the possible draw down periods as numbers of trades, as time passed and in dollar amount. Having accepted those at their scientifically tested and proven scale you then have to have worked on gaining experience in the markets with as little psychological damage imposed on you as possible - the best way is to trade demo for a prolonged period of time and after that trade with as little money as possible - amounts that would not hurt you financially but would still be meaningful enough to push some buttons in you and urge you to improve yourself. After all of this you need do persevere enough time for luck(law of large numbers) to work its way towards you.