Honesty is everything as the truth is all that matters...so here is some brutal, embarrassing honesty:
Long story short...my education as a trader has cost me ~$140k...And I absolutely do not have anymore to lose. My primary choice for gambling was long options believing that "it has to happen"...but it never did and I absolutely deserved to learn that lesson. If it wasn't for options I would have still lost the same amount of money...the problem was obviously me as the driver, not the trading vehicle.
After a 6 month break to really reflect on my failures I decided to get away from options and focus on futures (for a number of reasons not relevant to this thread). I've always been intimidated/afraid of futures trading but drawn to them for whatever reason. After some success paper trading I decided to go live trading micros...actually doing the things you are supposed to do...and I am profitable.
Although this thread is slightly premature based on my skills...the time is coming and I should probably get started with raising capital sooner rather than later.
Looking for some genuine advice on what to do here. I am 37 yo male, I do not have a job and really really do not want to go back to the work place, (haven't worked since 2018). I am really fortunate in that I own a decent house and a profitable small business with zero debt...but my lifestyle has to be extremely frugal due to very low income. Too frugal in fact.
So where would you look for trading capital in this situation? I have about $25k in an IRA I could cash out, probably another $20k in physical goods I could let go of with reluctance...but that's about it.
- Job is most obvious choice, unfortunately.
- Prop firm worth it? would I have to trade their specific way? would they even be interested?
- Take out a loan? If I am profitable maybe it would be worth taking out a cash loan of some sort.
Just looking for some advice,
thanks ET.
My god, man, grow up. You have a family. Of course the dream about being a trader is so appealing. But there is a reason why 90% of traders loose money and othet 9% barely make enough to keep trading. Only about 1% make more or less good money.
Majority of people that make money, do that not because they stare at charts every day and trade on demo day and night. They make money because they know how to properly backtest. And when I say backtest i do not mean eyeballing a chart, but properly backtest with coding using decades of data. Plus a real intuition behind the strategy, not just data mining.
I do lots of backtests, and i can assure there are lots of strategies that can make 200% on a particular year but next year they can make -90% loss.
If you wanna have a more or less good future for yourself and your family give up on the dream. And of course you didn't not come here to hear discouraging sh*t, and with highest probability you are not gonna listen to me. But please do it for your family, man up go get a job.
It is a media bulsh*t that everyone is destined to achieve something important in life. There's a chance you can achieve something only if you work hard, and if do things that you don't wanna do.
Trading isn't hard, it's easy and that is why everyone wanna be a trader. Don't fool yourself that you are working hard by trading, you are just having fun. Work is hard - you don't wanna do it. Trading is easy - you wanna keep trading. BUT being profitable trader is incredibly hard, otherwise everyone would do it.