Man, beaches bikinis, Brazilian girls, surfing....sounds amazing.How about I got to know a dude through a common sport, on a beautiful beach on Maui, where meeting people, including plenty of gorgeous, happy, surfy girls in bikinis is routine, like the friendly girl from Brazil that was chatty while sharing the shower the other day or the many people, including men that I have gotten to know that show up in fall from all over the globe to ride the fall/winter waves. If that makes someone homophobic that's their issue - not mine.