Quote from John_Wensink:
How anyone can support these people is beyond comprehension.
ACLU: Sex in Restroom Stalls Is Private
AP - Wednesday, January 16ST. PAUL, Minn. - In an effort to help Sen. Larry Craig, the American Civil Liberties Union is arguing that people who have sex in public bathrooms have an expectation of privacy.
The ACLU filed a brief Tuesday supporting Craig. It cited a Minnesota Supreme Court ruling 38 years ago that found that people who have sex in closed stalls in public restrooms "have a reasonable expectation of privacy."
The specifics of Craig's situation is a side issue. The more important issue is the ALCU argument that
sex - not just sexual solicitation - is OK in a public washroom stall.
An individual has an expectation of privacy in a washroom stall but the expectation of privacy doesn't trump all other concerns. Is it OK to molest children or commit murder in the privacy of your home?
If it's OK to have sex in a public washroom stall then it's OK to grunt, moan, crash around and do all the other things people are liable to do when they're having sex ( except have the after-sex smoke, of course ). In other words, it will likely be aggressively obvious to others in the washroom what's going on in that stall.
The majority of men find homosexual activities disgusting. This revulsion can't be flippantly dismissed as homophobia or prudishness.
Many homosexuals find heterosexual activity disgusting. Most of us find the idea of beastiality or gratification through shit-eating disgusting. Most of us have a tendency to find the sexual habits of those whose preferences differ from our own revolting. Whether or not this is natural or socially ingrained is irrelevant. It's how we are.
We accept others' shitting in washroom stalls because it's one of those many compromises we must accept for practical reasons. But most of us are pretty quiet when we go about our defecating and don't make others conscious of what we're doing other than by way of contributing to the general washroom stink. But how about the guy in his stall who's farting and grunting up a storm? We want to get the hell outta there because he makes us conscious of what's going on in the stall.. and we don't really want it brought to mind.
The noises summon up a mental image we find unpleasant.
The idea of guys bumfucking in a public stall is for most men an ugly image they don't want brought to mind. If there were some way to guarantee that this stuff could be conducted in a manner that it wouldn't inflict itself on the awareness of others there might be some justification for placing it under the expectation of privacy aegis - but pending soundproof stalls there isn't.
Lastly, we often must get to a washroom to relieve ourselves, but people who are so disturbed that they simply
must get to a toilet to have casual sex are rare.
There's no need for sex in public washrooms. It's disturbing to others. Others have a right to peace of mind that trumps the compulsions of the sexually disturbed.