OK, that sounds like a good explanation of why it would tend to try to move in a direction, but that's not what we're talking about here. What we're talking about is the explanation for why any deviation in either direction isn't arb'd away in seconds? The risk free rate on short term treasuries is sub .1%, this is 10% plus, two orders of magnitude larger. If Mr. Market didn't think there was any risk, that would be arb'd away in a heartbeat, just like any deviation in the S&P futures from spot taking into account the risk free rate and dividends is. Or any of the other financial futures, all of which trade within a hair of the equation that governs the risk free arb condition. The only difference between them and Bitcoin futures trading on unregulated exchanges is the requirement to entrust money to an unregulated exchange. Even the flash crashes don't impact you when you've got BTC and BTC futures at the same broker collateralizing each other unless you've got some serious lag on futures following spot and a hair trigger autoliquidation algorithm going on.
Yeah, the auto-liquidation is problematic and a LOT of people have been rekt on Bitmex because of it. But the better exchanges have improved those engines quite a bit.
My explanation is that capital flows directionally are so much larger that the arb cannot match it. Arbs on conventional markets are mostly institutions and they don't trade on unregulated exchanges because they can't. Retail arbs don't have the firepower to match the retail directionals.
Second, arbing at too low a point can put you in the red when the markets move becase the spread in the term structure will widen massively as the price shoots up. On ftx, at least, you also go into margin against USD because of the short on BTC. (as I found out the hard way.)
But, I agree, I don't know why more traders don't take the arb when the markets are hot, but the lack of trust doesn't make sense. Otherwise, the term structure would always be in massive contango according to that theory because the mistrust is a constant which is causing it. But that's not what happens.
I suspect it's because most conventional arbs are settled rather quickly, but a futures arb requires waiting until expiry, so most traders simply don't want to hold it that long.