Quote from Kicking:
Are you talking about good looking women and is that for every average looking guy or just for millionnaires and oligarchs because I have tried to pick up a few Russian girls of my age or younger in London and Switzerland and never scored with any of them. Actually all I got was flakeouts after flakeouts with those Russians. No nationality has been so consistent with flakeouts. I don't even bother anymore with them, plus I never know if their BF is not mafia or something.
If people just remembered one aphorism in their life, it should be,
"We see things not only as they are, but as we are".
I am always flabbergasted by the generalizations that are posited on ET as if they were espousing some general truth. While I do believe that stereotypes exist, when speaking about attraction, you can only come up with truths if the two people are taken into consideration
at once. There is no isolated truth about women and attraction, only attraction in pairs.
Latina women throw themselves at me. Some Eastern European women are attracted to me. Israeli women are attracted to me. Black women are attracted to me. However, [most]Asian women are not, nor are[most] Irish women.
I have always found it curious and I have tried to extract some "rule(s)" for what the deciding factor is. I have ruled out hair color, since I have dated blondes, brunettes, red heads. However, I have noticed one thing, I have dated one woman with blue eyes. Interestingly, I have dated many women with green eyes, hazel eyes, brown eyes, etc. It may be that women that have blue eyes value that feature greatly [I have brown eyes and blue eyes are recessive.] I have also noted that bone structure is another predictor of my attraction to them. Not sure why...Skin color is also not a deciding factor, I think. I burn in the sun and getting a tan is very hard for me. I have dated pasty white skin women, to women with very olive skin. Height is often touted as an issue, but I am 5'8" and other than women that are much taller than me, it is never an issue.
All I am saying is, I am 90 delta most women are selecting men for some sort of compatibility, subconsciously. You can subvert all that with money, fancy cars, clothes and other camouflage. However, instead of banging your head against the wall, date those women that naturally find you attractive. It is not that hard to figure out.
When you open your mouth, all that goes out the window anyway. Sex starts with the senses, but it is 100% between the ears.