Hehe cubano, now you'll get me involved in a whole new argument!
Here's my take.
In society, both white leaders and african american leaders agree that the "n" word is a bad thing these days.
In my view, whites have far less right to use the word.
An example, Italians can refer to each other in jest as say.. "guidos", but if a non italian says it to italians, they will probably take exception.
I will not necessarily chastise an african american for using the word, as I do not know their experiences. I have mentioned it to friends of mine before, and they generally understood my point of view.
But, when a white person uses that word, the experience is all too common, and I'm very familiar with what causes it.
They haven't been around black people, and they've been brought up to think that it is acceptable to use it in the company of other whites.
GRANTED, there are many exceptions, like inner city whites iusing the term in the company of their african american friends. But in general, society agrees that the n word is wrong.
I'll work on the whites that I meet,
and there are african americans that will work on african americans that they meet.
