Nice post AAA
And since DB attacks anyone who questions the issues you brought up, even when said person has much experience dealing with these people (as I have with volunteering in high poverty schools) let me throw in my 2 cents on the first 2 questions.
These kids get brought into the world with little chance of success since the deck is stacked against them based on the poor choices made by both the mother and father (who is typically not in the home 75% of the time). So we end up with kids growing up with Mom or Grandma, where the adult typically has minimal education themself. Thus, if they have a job, it's typically low paying. So they get Section 8 housing, Medicaid, food stamps, energy subsidies, etc. And many of the kids grow up thinking this is how life works. I know of kids I work with who have joked on Facebook about how they get EBT cards and are not 'suckers' who have to pay for groceries. These are kids as young as 11 bragging about how they get free 'shit'. And all one has to do is some simple multiplication ... Mom has 3,4 5, (or more) kids who grow up in poverty. Then those kids repeat the same mistakes and we start to see near exponential growth over time. Since Mom is usually not well educated, or doesn't care about the kids learning, the kids get next to no help at home with homework. And yes, plenty of these 'parent's use/abuse drugs and/or alcohol. And given the supposed dire situation they grow up in how do they (the kids) all have cell phones (with some having an iPhone). How do they pay for them? These are people (the adults) who make poor choices quite often and then want to blame others for their situation in life.
I've shared before that my grandfather had a 4th grade education, started working at age 10, later learned about plumbing, heating and air conditioning and eventually started a company and made it through the depression with 5 kids and another they adopted. The difference IMO between back then and now is that people back then had pride and a strong work ethic. And handouts were not a way of life. People felt some shame going and getting assistance. Today many of the recipients feel 100% entitled to what they get and whine about how they can't get by.
Some suggestions ... quit buying large flat screen TV's, quit buying cars you can't afford, spend as much time looking for a job as posting on Facebook, go get a GED if you don''t have a HS degree, quit using drugs, don't sell your SNAP cards to get $$ to buy other things forbidden by SNAP. And last .. take responsibility for your life and don't bring kids into the world that you cannot support financially or emotionally. And if you want to have sex then use protection. After all there's no cost to you for that.
And I'm not condemning all of the poor .. there are many 'working' poor who work 2 jobs to try to make it. My above points were relative to the selfish adults who don't give a crap about the kids they have.
And since DB attacks anyone who questions the issues you brought up, even when said person has much experience dealing with these people (as I have with volunteering in high poverty schools) let me throw in my 2 cents on the first 2 questions.
These kids get brought into the world with little chance of success since the deck is stacked against them based on the poor choices made by both the mother and father (who is typically not in the home 75% of the time). So we end up with kids growing up with Mom or Grandma, where the adult typically has minimal education themself. Thus, if they have a job, it's typically low paying. So they get Section 8 housing, Medicaid, food stamps, energy subsidies, etc. And many of the kids grow up thinking this is how life works. I know of kids I work with who have joked on Facebook about how they get EBT cards and are not 'suckers' who have to pay for groceries. These are kids as young as 11 bragging about how they get free 'shit'. And all one has to do is some simple multiplication ... Mom has 3,4 5, (or more) kids who grow up in poverty. Then those kids repeat the same mistakes and we start to see near exponential growth over time. Since Mom is usually not well educated, or doesn't care about the kids learning, the kids get next to no help at home with homework. And yes, plenty of these 'parent's use/abuse drugs and/or alcohol. And given the supposed dire situation they grow up in how do they (the kids) all have cell phones (with some having an iPhone). How do they pay for them? These are people (the adults) who make poor choices quite often and then want to blame others for their situation in life.
I've shared before that my grandfather had a 4th grade education, started working at age 10, later learned about plumbing, heating and air conditioning and eventually started a company and made it through the depression with 5 kids and another they adopted. The difference IMO between back then and now is that people back then had pride and a strong work ethic. And handouts were not a way of life. People felt some shame going and getting assistance. Today many of the recipients feel 100% entitled to what they get and whine about how they can't get by.
Some suggestions ... quit buying large flat screen TV's, quit buying cars you can't afford, spend as much time looking for a job as posting on Facebook, go get a GED if you don''t have a HS degree, quit using drugs, don't sell your SNAP cards to get $$ to buy other things forbidden by SNAP. And last .. take responsibility for your life and don't bring kids into the world that you cannot support financially or emotionally. And if you want to have sex then use protection. After all there's no cost to you for that.
And I'm not condemning all of the poor .. there are many 'working' poor who work 2 jobs to try to make it. My above points were relative to the selfish adults who don't give a crap about the kids they have.
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