success in trading is really just like any other gladiatorial game: for every winner, there must be a loser.
"fine," you say.
"so what" ?
if it is a given that most players will lose, to win, simply study what most traders do, then do the opposite.
success, simply defined, is studying failure and not repeating it.
what are your trading resolutions for the new year ?
here are mine: (what better time to admit to yourself the need to improve

)
1) take stops
2) understand risk before entering any trade
3) use the trailing stops that you decided on before you had cash on the table
4) never deviate from the SPECIFIC entry that got you into the trade
5) do not engage in self-sabotage
6) pay extra attention to your losing trades:
why did they lose ?
was i following the method ?
what is true about this trade that is different from other trades of this kind i have done before that worked ?
did i have an emotional attachment to this trade ?
&
7) teach others what you have learned.
i cannot overstress this last point. i have seen, over many years trading, that those who are trading for their own self-aggrandisement will inevitably fail. It is in the subconscious: if u r in this simply to score the cash,or the pride, or the stuff, or the attention, eventually, u will blow up (or go out) if, on the other hand, u r doing this as a means to an end, and you will not quit, you will eventually succeed.
mother theresa had doubts about her purpose, but she held firm, and did great things.
so can you.