I don't have to be a cook to tell you the food is not quite right. I won't pretend to know where the line should be drawn; I only know there should be one. Remember Justice Potter Stewart who said he would distinguish art from porn when he saw it? I think most of us have a pretty good idea when a line is being crossed. With that in mind, the important thing is to get an open dialogue going and to reach some meaningful agreement. Checks and balances.
Well, if you were somehow able to draw that line in a way that could not be moved, I'd be open to hearing more about your solution. But you can't, and so what we have currently is the best option until a new ones is found.