Quote from sle:
300k is barely enough to support a middle class lifestyle in Manhattan for a family of three. It's the reality - a shitty 2-bedroom (900 square feet) would ding you 4k a month in rent or a whopping $1.2 million to buy. Everything else scales accordingly.
Obviously, hot young guns can share an apartment in Bed-Sty five ways or move out further to the burbs. It's cheaper, but you are going spend two hours a day commuting and never get laid ("Seriously, we have to take an hour train ride to you place?!!").
Overall, trading as an occupation is overrated - it's a nasty, neurotic job that produces zero value for the society. In many cases, it's glorified legal gambling. To make a living trading your own money you need to have enough money in the first place. I would say 15ish percent return is what realistic (with an occasional draw-down year), so to bring home 150k, you need a buck plus some cash reserves - that money has to come from somewhere.
While I keep hearing about the people that managed to "compound" their portfolio, i have yet to meet one. On the other hand, if you have the right skills and attitude, you can easily stay employed in financial industry (there are plenty of non-trading jobs in finance that pay fine, like risk management).
To repeat myself "You can live well if you're rich and you can live well if you're poor. But if you're poor, it's much cheaper".
sle,
i am just relating to guys i have become friends with since say 2000 (through my cousin who works in the industry)...a pretty decent group. from what i am told they are earning a lot less (and most struggling bigtime)...but when they earn (big if ) again ; its a very nice chunk of change.
some are highly educated, others just landed there by the old "who you know thing". from how you describe yourself i would surmise if true you are on the next level above these guys and probably worked very hard for it. congrats.
regarding a guy trading his own money, i'm not trying to sell myself or prove anything..just very thankful so far...especially now.
That's why when a guy is trying to date "out of his league" looks-wise, the lower class women are easier to impress where the mere mention of wall street is an instant panty dropper.