Quote from stu:
You said you see evidence of a gentle, humble, wise and knowledgeable older couple. So you then develop an illusion of different evidence taking form of an erroneous belief, contrary to the actual evidence.
Damn close if it isn't delusional. Glad that makes you happy but it is what it is.
Delusional
why is that, explain please? What's delusional about my observations? All I do is I watch people, who they are, how they live, behave, and if I like what I see, I'm curious to find out what they do and believe in...I'm a good people reader (hence my Mom is a shrink, thought me some good stuff) most of the time I can tell the difference between the fake ones and the really happy ones, the ones with the "healthy" confidence....there aren't many out there.
Sure, my interpretation of "good and happy" may be different from yours....yet the end-result is what counts.
Most of my friends are non believers, many scientists among them, smart, knowledgeable, successful people who can do so well at work, yet fail at dealing with day to day problems, blame the world, the past, become secretly depressive, bitter etc....not that Christians don't, but it seems to me that without a belief in higher power it is much harder to overcome these things (there are many crazy christians out there...I'm not talking about those). It's just an observation, works for me, but chances are I will have a slightly different idea about this whole thing 10 years from now...I live and learn, think and analyze things all the time...sad to hear (in the earlier post) that my belief is equal to stupidity, a delusional fantasy....then I must be some lucky fool

it's the 'fruits' that count...isn't it?