You have for now understood that your simulated results were not attainable in real trading, or better said – were the result of a very calm market (we are all genius in bull markets) and….. overleveraging, but - seems to me - find a bit difficult to face reality. In time, you'll accept it. So, if you like the concept, you can still do it, but with more realistic target…..
Think about it.
If the difference between implied and realized is – for example – 5% per annum, only way to make 100% is apply 20x leverage. There’s no other way. And no broker will allow you to decide the leverage you like (for very good reasons...)
So, accept that your proposed short strangle have probably a positive expected value (over time), because DOTM option are overvalued. This overvaluation is NOT A FREE LUNCH, it is the prize you receive for exposing yourself to the risk of blowing up (others call it …. because of the skewness of the expected P&L).
And quite frankly, I strongly disagree with Magic’s last message, ……….. no one could improve the edge or find “alpha” with strike selection (otherwise anyone would do it, end the edge would disappear), not with a different hedging scheme (look at Euan Sinclair books, if you fancy to know better) and not even forecasting deltas (if one is able to forecast, she/he should trade stocks or futures, not options…).
Also, understanding counterpart’s reasoning is useful in certain cases (es if you trade OTC), but it’s useless (and impossible) if you trade AMZ or AAPL or almost any other option in a regulated exchange…. (knowing that a market maker will probably build a a conversion/ reverse conversion with the DOTM options is maybe interesting, but not very useful in practice).
that's too much truth for them to swallow lol