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    in over my head & looking for input

    come to think of it. valid point on your end. i do need some work on my articulation/writing skills. thanks.
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    in over my head & looking for input

    this is exactly what i am looking for. just a grocery list of suggestions on how i should proceed if things can not be turned around. like i said; i am not quitting on this or my child and hope for the best. i gave a very poor first impression and that was my fault. my initial post was...
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    in over my head & looking for input

    good point - indeed it is trivial. thank you for your feedback. i agree - the priority and most important aspect of this is focusing on our child. in terms of the marriage if you were to look at it on a chart right now, its hit bottom and has been making lower lows. so on the flip side, it...
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    in over my head & looking for input

    forgot to mention you also have some great points and input there. thank you again for taking time to post here. i appreciate it.
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    in over my head & looking for input

    thank you for your positive contribution to this thread i appreciate it. i completely agree with what you said. the only difference with our scenario is a little bit of the personality factor. some of the "differences" between us can become very irritating over time, based on the...
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    in over my head & looking for input

    you are totally missing the point. that is not what i am trying to do. i increased her account by $450K. i am legally entitled to half of that. however i do NOT wish to take it. based on the disparity of our incomes, my actual child support would not nearly be as much over time to the present...
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    in over my head & looking for input

    that is what life is all about; trying to achieve certain goals. you should do a better job of not extrapolating your own personal issues or hangups onto others. i don't need to see a shrink and just because i use all lower case letters does not mean i need to "write better." however i concur...
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    in over my head & looking for input

    divorce is not something that is imminent. but we are definitely at the lowest point of our relationship right now. i concur with your comment with respect to bigger problems being out there. i should have prefaced the fact that i would be willing to hang in there if not for our kid alone. i...
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    in over my head & looking for input

    third hand smoke is a new phenom that can potentially be the worst one yet. so even when a smoker steps outside your house and is ingesting a cigarette, as the cigarette is burning and they exhale, the detonation of all those toxic chemicals/poisons come out in a smoke like cloud from within the...
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    in over my head & looking for input

    and by they way what you describe here is an example of second hand smoke. i am talking about third hand smoke. google is your friend.
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    in over my head & looking for input

    based on the "Marriage - just don't" thread on here that is over 70 pages long, i do not think this is an unreasonable inquiry. that is the whole purpose of a message forum (to exchange experiences, thoughts, input amongst like minded individuals) or perhaps i am mistaken and just won't post...
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    in over my head & looking for input

    this is very relative to trading; just give me a moment to get there. so about 5 years ago now i decided to put on the biggest trade of my life; marriage. imho the type of woman you date has a completely different criteria than the woman you marry. there were a couple of concerns i had going...
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